Upgrade Yourself First!
People that consistently complain about what they can not do or how they do not have money are Debbie Downers and they bring the energy all the way down and suck the freaking life out of others. Sometimes you simply can not avoid being around people like this because of your relationship with them but you can protect your energy, vibe and space.
No one likes a negative person except other negative people and that is a fact!
If you drink too much and never know your limit but in your head you are a fun drunk when in reality you are a loud, rude and violent drunk that no one wants to be around but everyone wants to talk about means that you should re-examine how you perceive yourself and the reality of how others actually view you.
If you are bad with managing and saving money but always want to complain about how you are never seeing any prosperity and how you can never get ahead but you eat out every other day, buy unnecessary purchases, never put money to the side, never invest, but you buy bottles of liquor, weed, junk food and you are always in the negative financially........You have to take accountability of your bad and terrible choices because no one like a broke person that drinks too much and who is always complaining!
You have to be at a place in your life when you need, want and desire more! You have to practice obedience, conservation, self motivation and stop pointing the fingers at everyone else when the reality is that you can change your relationships all you want but if you consistently have the same issues in different relationships with totally different people....the common denominator becomes you! You are your own problem until you make better and wiser choices with important decisions in your life.
If you can not be a responsible drinker then drink less, who the hell likes hangovers anyway?!?! If you do not have money start saving and stick to a financial budget that has long term gains for investments. You make things harder on yourself when you remain in a child like existence. Because let’s be clear ....children whine and complain all the time , not grown ass people with a grind mode! Stop wasting everyone’s time with your childish complaints and pull yourself up by your bootstraps and grow the fuck up!
Stop talking about it and be about it. God has given you several chances to shoot your shot and you keep missing, with this next chance do better, be better, act grown and handle your business like a boss and not whine like a child. Actions speak louder than words and if all you have are a bunch of complaints with no solutions then keep your mouth closed. People do not like negativity. Change how you view the world and make a plan to correct poor choices and negative behavior.
If you want more do more, how can doing less help you get more anyway? You have to use your brain and start to strategize on ways to get what you want out of life. No one else gets a handout and they are not complaining so why are you? Make your actions accountable for the words that come out of your mouth. Surround yourself with people that are where you want to be in life. Put yourself in better places that will allow your conversation to be different, upgrade yourself before you point the finger at others to blame for all of your bad choices. Make moves that will allow you to connect with people that can refer business to you. Become closer to Christ and your Christian beliefs instead of being mean, aggressive and unlikable.
Change should begin with the person that stares back at you in the mirror. Good luck on becoming a better person you can certainly do it!!
