Superficial?
- Toni
- Dec 13, 2018
- 2 min read
Where do you stand in your relationship?
This is a very important question that you should already know the answer to.
Where do you see your relationship in the next 5 years? Goals are fundamental in a healthy relationship and you must set goals and obtain to reach them with your spouse or significant other.
Are you both on the same page with your religion? Finances? In order to be in a great space a couple must sit down and have some open dialogue and conversations about grown up things and real life. This is not the time to back down or take the conversation lightly. Instead, sit down and put your heads together and come up with a plan.
Is the communication good within your marriage or relationship? Are you being heard and are you allowing yourself to hear and understand your spouse? Talking opens up doors that are limitless and being acknowledged is healing and rewarding. So, don't just hear what the other person is saying but try to understand where they are coming from and then acknowledge what you have gotten from what they have said.
Is your relationship surrounded and supported be positive people that want to see you make it? If not, ditch the people you are venting to and get with some positive couples that have been through something and made it through it together. Get with couples that fight for love and family and watch the difference in how this affects your marriage.
Is your love superficial or supernatural? The moment your spouse has an allergic reaction to something and wake up with swollen eyes and big lips, will you run for the hills or be there To Help and support them? When your spouse has a bad day will you motivate and encourage them or feel as if they are being negative? Superficial or Supernatural you decide.
Marriage and relationships are verbs because they are a series of actions that you must continue to take to keep something functioning at it's best. You should never get tired of working together to have your Happily Ever After. When the work stops so does the relationship.
~Toni
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