Happiness

What makes you happy? Who makes you happy? Are you truly happy or just comfortable?

Happiness for me can not be defined by another individual. Nor can my happiness be defined by what a person can or can not do for me.  But I can tell you this, my happiness comes from a higher power that gives me abundant positive energy.  You see, people will let you down in someway, shape or form (not all people but most) and giving someone power or control over your state of being is rather foolish and naive. 

You deserve to smile EVERYDAY, You deserve to unwind, rejoice and relax EVERYDAY. Honestly, there are people that can't stand to see others happy(may even be the person you lay in bed with)some people just don't take advantage of enjoying the little things, some people don't understand how it feels to not frown everyday, some people don't even see that they are arguing by themselves and with themselves about things that truly don't even matter. Keep these type people at bay. Do not allow negative people to have any control over any part of you life or conversation. Some people would say "Well, just pray for them", ummmmmmmmmmm....wake up!

Sometimes you have to be aware of the REAL circumstances at hand. Which is some people do not deserve to be in your life no matter how much you pray for them, they never change and you will end up losing so many years of your life when you could have been in happy bliss. Know when to let Go and let God! God wants us to enjoy life not compelling us to work on or pray for someone else at the sake of our very own happiness..........wake up!

If you have a coworker that stresses you out, yes pray for them and your work situation but also make moves to handle the situation for the betterment of everyone's well being. You may have teenagers or adult kids that may be stressing you, pray for your kids and your family however do not give over power to your child to control how you feel everyday. Take your power back and gain control of your happiness by drawing lines and adhering to rules that must be established between you and your child. Reinforce how much you love them but enforce the fact that they do not and will not control your life or happiness. Ignore people that only want drama, they are a distraction from you being happy. #StayWoke