RESPECT and Sex

As a woman, how would you feel if your man touched you romantically around your kids? Now, when my friends and I have this discussion we all come down with the same verdict.....disgusted.

Sex is between man and woman, not daddy/momma/son/daughter.  Sex is intimate and romantic, but there is nothing romantic about being rubbed on your vagina with your kids in the room. As a matter of fact it's disrespectful for a grown ass man to not be mature enough to respect your kids. 

A little smooch is not what we are talking about here, but French kissing in the presence of your kids is revolting along with rubbing your man's penis, his hands fondling your breast .. .....this is grounds for Dfcas, because if you as a couple think that it is OK for a man to have a hard on penis in a room where there are kids then something is clearly wrong with the situation and matters should be investigated.

Respect goes a long way! Don't not cross those lines of parents, lovers and kids because in the USA too many problems with people crossing those lines occur. As adults the innocents of your kids should come first. Respectfully deny sexual advances and explain why if your man should feel like you are turning him down or saying 'NO' to him. But, girl let him know that it is NOT OK and it is disrespectful to you as a mom/woman, your kids and himself as a grown ass man to act like he does not have self control.

Let him know that most men do not do this and try and figure out why he think it is OK. But, be clear that it is unacceptable, disrespectful, gross, unattractive and weird. 

Your home must be ran in order. The man is the head and when the head is out of order the entire family fails and is in dysfunction. The head of the family sets the precedent of Respect, Loyalty, Provider, Leadership, Devotion, Honesty and Integrity. So many people are losing themselves and their way and wonder why they are not being blessed. They are wondering why they can never get ahead. But, they fail to see the things that they are doing are incorrect and wrong.

There is a time and place for everything. If you cannot get alone time with your mate then hire a babysitter, book a romantic get-a-way, go in another room and close then lock the door, go to a nice hotel but don't act like you are not a grown adult that is not capable of controlling your urges. Sometimes you are too old to want to just hump like rabbits anyway, put some thought into it, plan for it, make it special. 

The point is that there is NO Excuse to grope, fondle private parts in front of innocent kids. Be grown, act grown and Respect your babies and kids, then be blessed for it!