Hmmmm.....

Do you use someone to get where you want to be in life or not?

No...(Hubby) if you don't want anything out of it, just go without and stop giving that person false hope.

Yes....(me) because 9 times out of 10 a person is only gonna do what you allow them to do.

Yes...(Tyra) if they have no problem with it.

Is it OK to take advantage of someone to benefit yourself?

No....(me) if you are deliberately and intentionally using someone for your own selfish gain then karma will eventually reap the benefit at your expense.

It depends.... (Hubby)

Yes...(Tyra) if they allow me to do it.

Are the people that are being used just as responsible for allowing someone to use them?

(Everyone) Absolutely..... If that person is aware and still goes along with what it is that you are doing.

Are some people so desperate to be loved that they would accept being used just to have someone to call their own?

(Agreed hubby and me) Absolutely, it is sad but it happens everyday. Some people will allow others to walk all over them just to lay next to them at night. It is a self esteem problem and also lack of self love.

(Hubby and I)....We have to be careful what messages we send to others and physically, verbally and subliminally. As the giver perceives as a being nice and helpful, the receiver perception is that if you want to help, then I'm gonna allow you to help me come up with no real expectations in return.

Is this fair? No. But its real!

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