Play Your Role!

Toni
Jul 31, 2017
2 min read

What's your role?

Doctors help heal the sick and injured.

Car salesman sells vehicles.

Realtors sell and lists properties.

But it is deeper than the career aspect.

Liar, cheater, abuser, thief, hypocrite, advocate, philanthropist, hater, bully, peacemaker, wife, homemaker, husband, child, leader, side piece, provider, protector, hype man, party goer.....and the list goes on.

Each one of these nouns are a description of someone that you know and believe it or not they all have role to play. Everything is kosher and in its natural order when we play our specific roles....(this is my opinion and totally, debatable of course😊.) But, when people start taking on multiple roles it throws everything out of order.

If you are a wife...be the wife and act as such. You are the queen bee. Never think less of yourself or your position. Support is your role. Caregiver is your role and homemaker is your role. Know, that your husband comes first and that he must lead by example because he is the head and not the tail of the family. Things get out of order when us wives try and take over and be the sole breadwinner and provider ripping that responsibility from the men. This allows your sons and daughters to grow up with role reversal mentality (my Christian readers know this) the husband is designed and created to provide and protect his family...regardless of what you think or how you feel you must allow a man to be man...they want to feel needed and just as pheromones are designed by nature so is the need for real man to protect and provide.

We can not afford to keep brainwashing our kids to believing that women don't need men and men don't need women... That's a lie that has become propaganda and institutionalized and now mainstream by way of television and the world wide web.

Just as side pieces roles are not to be seen or heard. Your role as a side piece requires you to only screw on call...that's it. Now things get out of balance and out of order when a side piece wants to be seen and heard. Then he or she wants a bigger role and that causes problems for the entire situation. Know and understand your role and everything will remain kosher for all parties.

Haters roles are important because the constant gossip and finger pointing, doubt and overall energy and attention their driving towards a person or situation can help fuel or motivate the individuals they are hating to go harder and not quit or give up. They actually become a motivating factor which is the most important role of them all.

The party goer, is that happy go lucky person that you know that is always upbeat and looking for somewhere to have a great time. They want everyone to enjoy themselves and they are typically always jovial. Even though sometimes the party goer can get on your damn last nerve. They are the most fun to have around and they get you out of the house at those moments when you really need to get out of your own head and let loose.