We Are Different

Everyone's life is unique and important. We are not only different by identity, fingerprints, DNA, personalities, weight, size, color or pheromones. But, we are different in how we think and communicate. 

The way I plan my day is different than how you will plan your day. The instructions I may give to creating a website are different to the directions you might give but, does that make either one of us right or wrong? No. Look don't get caught up over the logistics of things. As long as the plan is executed and the ending results are exceptional thats all that matters. #results

Now, some people like to micromanage and supervise...... are you getting paid? Hope so. Because, how someone washes the dishes doesn't matter if all the dishes come out clean. Relax and let go of trying to be in control of everything. I've learned that when you try to do everything you actually end  doing pretty much nothing at all or less than what you could have if you concentrated on one thing in particular and allowed someone else to help complete your other tasks. 

Work as a team. Don't micromanage. Delegate responsibilities and trust your team. The biggest part of having a team is trusting that each individual person will handle their responsibilities respectfully and efficiently with proper communication. But, you have to understand that they are gonna do things in a way that is comfortable for them which you may not necessarily agree with and that is OK, as long as they get the job done.

I know that relinquishing trust and responsibilities is hard for some people but it ultimately means less stress, less worry, more time for other things and when your team feels like you trust their work they won't mind helping again. Don't be a "Team of Me" because some things require a "Team of We" and if you are the type of person that for some reason, just refuse to stop going behind some one and redoing something that they have already done, only because it wasn't done your way. Then, that's your dumb ass, just don't ask for help in the first place and do it all yourself and let everyone else sit back and enjoy themselves.

Boo, everyone is different and no one thinks like you, get over it and take the weight off your shoulders and allow others to help you out. Its totally OK!

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