Oh She is a Slick Hater!

Everyone in your circle may act as if they are happy for your accomplishments and accolades but they most definitely are not!

Sometimes we are so excited about something that we are doing and we want to tell everyone about it! Later we find out that slick comments were made by certain people about the information we shared. This is bitch assness! Straight up. Stop allowing things like this shock you. It is to be expected from some family and friends.

You must be present enough in all of your relationships to know who will be authentically happy for you. As an adult you must draw the line when people fake support you. You are grown enough to know when a slick comment is made or even if someone down plays something that you are doing to better yourself.

Stop allowing people to feel it is alright for them to belittle your efforts. It's not! As a matter of fact, just stop telling them your moves. Move silently and let them guess and assume. Negativity is invasive and maleficent. It seeks to destroy your spirit and place doubt in your subconscious. Someone can show up or be around you but does not mean that they are there for actual support. They may be there for the drama or see what does not go right.

You are old enough to know who these people are and the steps you must take to have peace and actual support from people that are genuinely happy for your accomplishments.  Oh She a Slick Hater if she gotta throw shade! 

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